Safety

Last updated: September 27, 2026

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Flirting should bring joy, not trouble. Here is what will help you stay safe, both in chat and when you meet.

In chat

Don't rush to share personal details. Your last name, address, workplace, phone number and social media can wait until you know the person better.
Never send money or share your card details, SMS codes or passwords, even if the story sounds very convincing. A request for money is almost always a sign of a scammer.
Be careful with links. Don't click links from strangers, and don't install apps because they ask you to.
Stay on Flirra longer. Scammers often push you to move to another messenger. On Flirra, you can report and block a person.
Intimate photos only when you're sure. Remember: any photo can be captured from the screen. A "view once" photo reduces the risk but doesn't eliminate it. It's better not to show your face or recognizable details (tattoos, your home interior).
Warning signs: the person refuses a video call, their story doesn't add up, they confess feelings too quickly, ask for help, pressure you or get angry when you say no.

Have a video call to make sure the person is who they say they are.
Tell a friend who you are meeting, where and when. You can share your location.
Get there on your own and leave on your own. Don't agree to be picked up from home.
Keep your phone charged and have money for a taxi.

First meeting in a public place: a café, a bar, a waterfront. Not at your place or theirs, and not in a car.
Watch your drink. Don't leave it unattended, and don't accept drinks from other people's hands.
Know your limit with alcohol.
You can leave at any time. No one owes you anything, and you don't owe anyone anything.

Consent must be clear and freely given, and it can be withdrawn at any time.
A person who is heavily intoxicated, asleep or under pressure cannot give consent.
Consent to one thing does not mean consent to another. Ask.
Use protection. Get regular health checkups.

Immediate danger: call 112 (Türkiye, EU). In Türkiye, the ALO 183 social support line is also available.
Report it on Flirra: "…" on the ad or in the chat → "Report." We will review the report and ban the account if necessary.
Keep evidence: screenshots, names, times. This will help the police.
If someone is blackmailing you with intimate photos, don't pay and don't send any new material. Save the conversation, block the person, report them to us and contact the police.
If violence has happened, it is not your fault. Seek medical help and reach out to people close to you whom you trust.

Questions and urgent safety requests: hello@flirra.app (subject "Safety").